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SamuelBanker

my stepson Patrick Samuel Banker was given up for adoption in 1990. he is now a successful working man with wife and a 2-year-old child. we now would love to meet his maternal parents. to celebrate family. we currently have background information on his parents and Patrick, but no names to research. what is the course of being supplied the names / any information that could lead to a family celebration. BIRTHPARENT REQUESTS: Patrick’s birthmother stated that she would like to see him grow up in a Christian family who are fun and loving people. She wanted him to have a relationship with a consistent, strong father—figure as this was lacking in her own background. THIS was done. and all are happy and a loving group. Patrick Samuel Banker born September 3Øth, 199Ø, at 9:15 A.M. at Hampton General Hospital in Hampton, Virginia. any help would be grateful. I have full allowance to pursue this quest from Patrick. we believe that his birth name was Samuel. FAMILY HISTORY: Maternal History: Patrick ’s birthmother was 2Ø years old and unmarried at the time of his birth . Her birthdate is January 14th, 197ø. She is an attractive young Caucasian woman who stands 5’ 6" tall and weighs 12Ø pounds. She has brown hair and brown eyes. Patrick’s birthmother is left handed. She is a high school graduate who works as a secretary—bookkeeper. In high school she was active in girl’s football, softball, track and field, hockey and soccer. She still plays on a softball league. Patrick’s birthmother came to Bethany Christian Services when she was four months pregnant for pregnancy counseling . She subsequently went to live in a maternity home but continued in counseling with Bethany Christian Services . Patrick ’s birthmother felt that she was unable to see him after his birth but she did have him dedicated by her pastor and several friends even though she was unable to at— tend . This occurred in the hospital prior to his discharge and pictures were taken as well as the ceremony being audio taped. Patrick’s birthmother describes herself as bright and outgoing with a good sense of humor. She has grown tremendously in her faith through this experience. Her parents were divorced when she was young and she has had little contact with her father . She and her mother have experienced a difficult relationship but her mother was very supportive of her decision to place the child for adoption and in fact, this experience has brought about a reconciliation in their relationship . Patrick’s birthmother is currently living with her sister. She underwent a period of depression in high school and says that she was very rebellious and un— happy at that point. She was not involved with drugs, alcohol or smoking cigarettes . She met Patrick’s birthfather through friends and dated for over a year. — Paternal History: Patrick’s birthfather is a black male in his early twenties who stands 5 ’9" tall and has a medium build. He dropped out of high school al— though he is quite intelligent and has worked as a landscaper. He reportedly is good at basketball . Patrick’s birthfather apparently grew up in a series of foster homes as his mother was using drugs and lost custody of her children. He did not want his son to be placed for adoption but could offer no alternative plan. Maternal Extended Family Information : Patrick’s birthmother’s father is 5’ 9" tall, of medium build with brown hair and brown eyes. He is self—employed. Her mother is 54, is 5 ’6" tall and weighs 145 pounds. She has brown hair and eyes, is a high school graduate and works as a hair dresser. Patrick’s birthmother has two sisters, one 33 years old who is 5 ’7 t’ tall with light brown hair and brown eyes. She is a high school graduate who works as a secretary. Her second sister is 3ø and is 5’6". She has light brown hair and brown eyes, is a high school graduate and works in personnel . — Paternal Extended Family Information: No information available. HEALTH HISTORY: Birthmother : Patrick’s birthmother is allergic to penicillin. Her mother and older sister have had breast cancer. Her mother has hypertension . Reportedly her father has suffered from kidney stones. During her sixth month of pregnancy she took antibiotics for a kidney infection. Her maternal grandmother has heart disease, has experienced a stroke and suffers from glaucoma . Birthfather: No information available. BIRTHPARENT REQUESTS: Patrick’s birthmother stated that she would like to see him grow up in a Christian family who are fun and loving people. She wanted him to have a relationship with a consistent, strong father—figure as this was lacking in her own background. Patrick Samuel Banker was born September 3Øth, 199Ø, at 9:15 A.M. at Hampton General Hospital in Hampton, Virginia. At birth he weighed 8 pounds, 6 1/2 ounces and measured 2ø 1/2 inches.