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Topaztammy56

My name is Tammy . I was adopted and am not new here. Now i have found my mother or rather a picture of her. Her name was Sandra Kaye Sims this her maiden name. Have so much more hope than I did before . Although mother died in 1998 in Independence,Missouri. Searched for over forty years for two names who were both dead and both took with them the name of my father. This name was probably on my adoption papers but shortly after i had started reading them my ex step mother in law grabbed them from me .locked herself into a room and started making phone calls . Stayed in the locked room doing this for a long while . Left through another door from her bedroom. Came back bragging about how she had told anyone she had called anything that she could think of and all bad. Bragged about she had done such a good job that none ever wanted to meet something like me .now things are not so sbad because and some are still complicated .Now that i have said all this let me say that the man who signed my birth certificate is not my father.Now My mother met this man when she was already pregnant with me by a couple months. Mother married him shortly before my birth. Sandra Kaye Sims and Terry Donald Shaw were married in July of 1970.I have a half sister which was born in 1973 Stacia Kaye Shaw this my sisters maiden name.I talked to her for the first time in 2016 and two half brothers too and they have a different father than Stacia and myself. Now I have been researching my mother hoping that i would find something so that I might find my father. Have found out so much about her. Know that there are more missing siblings . One name through my sister . A half brother and have the same fathers name on our birth certificate. That name is Terry Donald Shaw and he is neither one of ours father . My brother was born in between years of 1975 and 1978 in Houston Texas most likely . At his birth his name was Jeremy Shaw and do not know his middle name for sure, now my hypothesis middle name through researching is Allen.My sister told me Jeremy story of how he has a name as but is not the same as his father.She had been told his but not mine. Anyway my brother would be biracial. Now i am not sure of his fathers actual name but it could be easily found if he should want to know this I will tell him. His mother name on birth certificate would be either Sandra Kaye Sims her maiden name. Maybe could be her married name and that would have been Sandra Kaye Shaw. Yet she was also married at my birth to same man and she signed her maiden name on my birth certificate. So is Jeremy Shaw out there . I am your sister. You have another older sister and two, younger brothers ,also. Their names are Stacia and Jimmy and Danny. There might be just a few more possible that are missing still also. Have always wanted a blood family. My heart is full of hugs just waiting to give you when you are ready my other little brother. Hope to talk to you real soon. Name is tammy tankersley