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DATA WAS LIKELY ALTERED WHEN I WAS ADOPTED. It SHOULD be close to the original‚ but if a few details are different from yours‚ don’t hesitate to contact me! We could still be a match. **I AM LOOKING FOR:** - A twin (I found our brother!! Twin still missing) - Any other sibling **I KNOW:** - I have a twin (missing‚ possibly adopted or died in birth?). - We were most likely born in or near Allegheny County‚ Pennsylvania. - I was adopted in a different country that changes records in closed cases. They could ALSO have been adopted in a separate country. BUT we are Americans from birth‚ unless the country changed that for them as well (I’m a dual citizen now because of the adoption) - I’m IN CONTACT with my bio mom‚ and I think I know a bit about of my bio dad. **I DON’T KNOW:** - My twin’s gender (could be identical or fraternal) - Who adopted my twin - If there are other siblings **PERSONAL MESSAGE:** **To my twin** I’m reaching out as a 25-year-old (almost 26) woman who recently learned something life-changing about our family. I was told just a few months ago that I had a sibling I never knew about. I’ve been thinking about both of you ever since‚ and I want you to know that our family still loves you‚ misses you‚ and wants you to be part of our lives if you’re open to it. If you’re out there‚ please know I’ve missed you every single day. Even before I knew you existed‚ I felt like a piece of me was missing. When I found out the truth recently‚ everything made sense. I think our mother has been mourning your absence for years. She cries sometimes when we talk‚ and I now believe those tears are for you. She hasn’t shared much with me‚ and I know this has been incredibly hard for her. She’s been through a lot‚ and I want you to know that it was never your fault or anything to do with you. It’s clear to me now that she did what she could and what she thought was best. I also want you to know that she’s doing better now. She’s found stability (mentally‚ emotionally‚ and financially) and support. I believe she’s ready for the possibility of reconnecting with you‚ even if she hasn’t said it out loud. I hope‚ if you’re open to it‚ we can finally meet. We haven’t stopped thinking about you‚ and I hope one day we can be in each other’s lives. You equally belong here‚ and there’s still love waiting for you. With Love‚ Your Sister M