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Hello I am 23 years old. My older sister (Valerie Smith) passed away in 2019. Leaving behind her daughter/my niece (Serena Sharon Smith) While we we’re young kids(too young for me to remember) a lot went on with my parents and Valerie’s (my sister) father aswell and his new girlfriend. Even to this day I don’t know what side to believe or what actually happened. I feel like whatever in the past‚ over a two decades ago should stay there I don’t want drama with my family. And I was never looking for drama. I don’t remember any time being with Valerie while I was younger. Years later when I was 15 I was able to meet her again and we connected so well it was great at least that is what I remember. But we hardly talked/messaged each other( we didn’t have a way to communicate) Then we found each other on Facebook and talked a little more here and there. When Valerie passed away only I was allowed to come to funeral with some of her close family‚ not her bi-logical mother (my mother) or half brother (my full brother) which I had no problem with her own father was not there. I wasn’t going to fight it. So while at the funeral I met my niece Serena we didn’t really talk as she was really young and I was kind of a stranger to her. We still managed to get a little hello in. Time after Valerie passed I tried reaching out only 8 month after her passing because I couldnt find her name at the cemetery. Valerie’s step mother went on saying that I wasn’t welcome into the family and that she could not help me. Because I had miss Serena’s birthday/Christmas which I completely understand. I was just very upset and did spam her as her keep reading and leaving my messages. I was only 19/20 at the time. I didn’t know what to do with myself not even having a parent to talk to about it. And trust. Through the past couple years it has been on going that’s I will not be allowed to see my niece. Im noticed I’m doing better for myself growing up and so I decided to message them my apologies. Also considering I don’t know whose side to believe. Sharon (Valerie’s step mom) accepted my apologies and told me that she was not the care taker for Serena for anymore as she had a heart attack and could not handle Serena seeing that stuff. When I was upset just wanting my family to be family ‚ the care taker( I think it’s Valerie sister) of Serena was very rude telling my lies about my sister saying she hated me etc. I have screenshot/screen recording of everything that was said even‚ what I had said. I was just wondering if you guy could help me out with this.. they say I will be allowed to see her when her when she is better with her new lifestyle adjustment as she moved into a new home. I think there are very impulsive lairs to get there way. I see even Sharon get time alone with Serena so I even think that would be a good time for me to get to se her to as the care taker is not a fan of me. When I did nothing wrong. I really hope you find this one day Serena!!