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Tom1984
My name is Tom. I gave a male child up for adoption in the summer of 1984. The birth of this child was in Raleigh NC on 7/21/1984. The mother chose the adoption agency and I don't recall the name of the agency or where their office was located in NC. I do recall that the mother requested the adopting family be catholic. I have never searched for this child because I did not want to disrupt his life. In speaking with a friend‚ they said to me "did you ever consider that the child might feel the same". (i.e. The child may not want to disrupt my life). And‚ this friend said that the child might have questions they would like answered. After thinking about this‚ I thought I should find this child and let him know it would not be a disruption to me and I am willing to answer any questions. Then he can make the decision if he wants to contact me.