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Julie6676
My grandmother Joan Pfuntner was put in a nuns place during her pregnancy because she wasn’t married & father was married to another woman. So placed a son up for adoption. From what I know my mom was 1st born child of 6 children my grandparents had Paul & Joan Hunt of alden new york the had 4 daughters & 2 sons. It wasn’t until I Julie Reimer their oldest granddaughter‚ daughter to Carol "Hunt" & Alan Reimer I got pregnant at age 15 had my son at 16 yrs old I kept my son that somehow brought up the secret of my grandmother having a son before marriage to my grandfather & birth to my mom. The family was under the impression my mom was 1st born child. I’m not exactly sure of the exact dates of the son she gave birth to. My mom Carol is June 29 1954. My mom says right before me so if that’s the case it’d be 1953 but nobody has ever said anything about the son to me I ask and never get a response directly. Nor did anyone really asked a lot about him to my grandmother Joan before she passed away in 2013. All I recall is grandma had an affair with a married man that a manager of the bank she worked at in Alden or Lancaster New York. When she found out she was pregnant her family sent her to a convent not sure exactly where I’m assuming somewhere upstate where she gave birth to a son . Then married my grandfather Paul Hunt like a year later my mom was born June 29 1954 shortly after their marriage. I only knew it was a boy because I remember my mom & aunt’s saying that’s why she meaning their mom Joan‚ she was always worried about the girls dating boys specifically when my aunt Deborah married grandmother thought it was incest nobody understood what she was saying until I became a teenage mom. Confusing I know and not a bunch to go on. I’m hoping there would be some record of the adoption. I personally love the family bond I grew up having my entire life and it bugs me eternally knowing that there is family we have never met or tried to locate. I respect the privacy and If he doesn’t want to know anything about our family or health history. I for instance have primary progressive multiple sclerosis.. but I mainly want my mom to know more about him the Hunt side of my family is secretive about stuff. My Reimer side is hugs and very close hence whom I take after lol. I don’t want a family member of mine to not feel wanted or thought of. There’s an empty spot in my heart that I am not completely comfortable with when it comes to this child now grown man.
