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SusanMarie1983

I am searching for my Biological Father‚ and anyone in my paternal Biological family. They are of African American heritage. I am half white and half black. I was born in 1983 at Royal Oak Beaumont hospital in Royal Oak‚ Michigan. My Biological Mothers name is (she’s now deceased) Jacqueline Mae Heileman (born 12/18/44)‚ who is a white woman. I am Biracial‚ Black and White. Whoever my Biological Father is‚ is of African American Descent. I have taken DNA tests through both Ancestry.com‚ and 23 and Me. I have uploaded my kits to GED Match. My adoption took place in 1986 through a Catholic adoption agency in Michigan‚ however I’m not exactly sure of the formal agency name. I had a genealogist who found my white Mother’s living siblings who I made contact with‚ who have proven to have zero empathy/ interest in myself and my mother’s existence and well being. The behavioral patterns of empathy lacking for my life and my mother’s life from my maternal biological lineage‚ has proven to show why there was such a recklessness over the lack of safety of care for my mother’s life‚ her tragic way of her life ending‚ as well as how I ended up being adopted by an extremely abusive family who were reckless and caused me to be forced into ongoing chronic abuse for the first few decades of my life. Due to this unhealthy behavioral patterns on my white side of my Biological family‚ it has shown to be a very unhealthy pattern that is not safe for me to interact with any further. As I work to break the generational trauma for myself‚ my child‚ and my future grandchildren and lineage. My Mother’s side (whites) have proven to show blatant disregard‚ zero empathy or interest in either my Mother’s‚ Myself‚ and my child’s welfare or well being repeatedly‚ which is why it is no longer healthy or safe to interact with these people. My real Mother’s own brother and sister literally did not care about her life‚ her death‚ and expressed that they had zero care or interest in a funeral for their own sister‚ to honor her life‚ which is absolutely sad and shameful. When my real Mother was pregnant with me in 1982/83‚ she was either residing/a patient of the Northville State Hospital of Michigan‚ or in the Hawthorn Center (also a state run hospital)‚ where my genealogist and I suspect she met my Biological father and conceived me. We suspect my Biological Father was either a worker in one of these hospitals‚ or another patient. Unfortunately‚ my genealogist died a couple years ago‚ so I am unable to use his aid in my search. We were able to find record of my paternal lineages migrational patterns in Louisiana‚ and California via distant relatives residing in these territories. Due to the massive disappointment in dealing with learning about my Mother’s side of my real family‚ and learning that they aren’t good people‚ it is of the highest importance that I find my real Father’s family‚ and my Father. I am certain that there are good people in my lineage out there‚ and it would mean the world to me to find people who actually truly do care about me‚ my welfare and well being.