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Jennylc2007

I have found my birth mother’s (Patsy Lovejoy) side Have a relationship with that side of the family and I learned so much about birth. Mother definitely gave me closure on that side. Through process of information I have about my birth father‚ I believe I know who it is. However‚ he did pass away in 2012. he was a prominent figure in Cocoa Beach Florida a cousin reached out to me on ancestry and gave me a lot of information to lead me to believe this was my BF. DNA matches up. I reached out to birth fathers first cousin and she was interested in talking to me and then all of a sudden she stopped and said she could not help me. I want to reach out to his first son that he had with another woman his son was born Six months after me. Birth father did marry his mother. Had another child and divorce that same year. But father then married someone else a year later and lived the rest of his life happily with her and had two additional children with her. My question is should I reach out to son number one because I am very interested in how birth father passed away so young. He was 68. Birth mother passed away at 70 so I am very curious about health reasons. Again as it is a prominent family in the community And I'm sure they would question my intention. I am not looking for anything other than health information. Looking for feedback thank you in advance