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Debbielaron
Hello I have tried since age 7 to find my Father and been told lies from my Mother he was Dick Jensen a really kind Hawaiian singer in Honolulu I never lived with him and I did ask him to do DNA because deep inside I felt he wasn't and on his death bed I flew to Hawaii he passed a few weeks later and the Sister by him I was led to believe she Loved me she told Me I AM HANAI (ADOPTED ) She made him tell me to my face on his death bed he cried I told him it wasn't necessary her only concern was to make me push my flight back a week so she could get their attorney to Kaiser so she could get the Legal Papers changed since IM NOT HOS LEGAL Daughter now. Delegate me and his Wife Toni. I wasn't concerned more Hurt for Him he was suffering from his surgery and what he knew was ahead. He knew I was looking for My Biological Father He Also kept me a Lifetime from finding and My Mother a secret unknown why but it has all unraveled now. I did Ancestry DNA and since I was a child I knew I was Jewish but thought I was that because of my Mom's Dad from Latvia. 2015 came and since then every day til I couldn't keep my eyes open I searched online on my old cell phone trying to figure out my DNA and I messed it up putting my Family on and my Hawaiian Father I was told to be mine. I seen on FB ancestry DNA detectives for free and that was the Key. They ask you to put in some information about yourself then a pic and who your looking for. They have Many on their doing the detective work and it's FREE... I got a in box message from a lady named Linda wizard and she was more of an Angel then anything to me. She asked to be allowed into my DNA profile and I said yes we sat with our cell phones and Laptops for awhile my Sons were worried at first can she steal your DNA at this point I'm doing terrible and need all the help I can get I had to Trust her. She said she needed a few days and to delete The Hawaiian Father he's Not Your Father and You know this also those Uncles and Aunts their All just Half and that Grandpa Jack He's NOT Your Grandfather 👀I found my real Father thru Ancestrydna with the hel from LINDAWIZARD The DNA Detective Angel on FB but he passed away in 1988 and the Grossmans that I am related to have made comments that I'm NOT his Daughter‚ Stanford Grossman Never had a child nor did he marry. He was in the Military just like my GrandFather and my GrandUncles all in WWII THE FIGHTING GROSSMANS . So Here I am going on age 64 in May a Mother that left me in an empty house with one of my siblings when I was young and a man i was led to believe was my Father I never lived with but Ai Knew inside my Gut My Mom and Family was lying to me and I kept searching... Thank God for Ancestry DNA and The Lady Linda that helped me find out Who my Father really is . Sad Part is even my Fathers side won't recognize me either I'm not sure how this has happened to me. I was able to get some copies of my Fathers military papers and I've met a close cousin she's so kind. I am Greatful my Search and Journey is over I just never knew it would turn out like this . I grew up in Hollywood and was born in Los angeles ‚California born at County General Hospital May 7 1962 oddly same as one of my Grand Uncles Moses Grossman. I have Gauchers Disease soon to be seen by a Dr in San Luis Obispo CA from UCLA COMING FROM WEST LOS ANGELES SAME AREA MY FATHER WAS LIVING BEFORE HE PASSED AWAY. I really hope someone sees this that may know my Fathers side of the Family. My Mom Pamela met My Father in Los Angeles Ca I'm sure at the time she was around my other DNA relatives The Hardgroves? There was a case involving her also she was young and my Mother was Pregnant with Me at St Ann's Home for Unwed Mothers the Address is on my Birth Certificate . She was suppose to deliver me there I found out from what the new people that are running the place with a new name their told me and since she left she had me at the county General Hospital on State Street near Down Town Los Angeles‚CA. I am looking for help to solve this please if you feel that that it's unethical that they can dodge me and say He's Not My Father because He Never Married and they Called me a Scammer because Their Hiding a situation and saying I'm After My Fathers Money? I am going to be 64 in May it's too late for Child Support so they must be concerned and Know about ME AND I AM SO HURT OVER THEIR WORDS I CAN REALLY USE SOME HELP ESPECIALLY IN THE AREA OF MILITARY BENEFITS IF I AM ELIGIBLE HE NEVER MARRIED OR HAD ANY CHILDREN EITHER I HAVE BEEN LEFT IN THE STREETS Since A KID WITH DISABILITIES AND COULD USE HELP TO SEE IF I AM ELIGIBLE TO FILE . 🙏 Thank You for Your Patience and Time God Bless You .
