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EssenceAyhanna
Im 36 years old and now Im mentally ready for this journey of discovering the Woman I am today. I was adopted by a strong 34 year old woman named Linda Cumby. The Birth Certificate although an original it is not the one given at birth. Listed under mother is Linda Cumby and where my father should be listed it says adopted. Weird right? Well I think so,but then again it was the 80’s. There is physician on there but I cant remember his name at the moment. Its also states i was born in Martinez, Contra Costa. There’s a strong possibility my birth family and adopted family knew each other. My mom and her siblings were born in Richmond and raised in Berkeley. Yay Area baby 510 Me Hayward and Oakland. I don’t have anything on my biological parents nothing not even names. I felt like I was a secret and don’t want to hurt my mom’s heart by bombarding her with basic questions shes old fragile and I love her. After finding out around 12 yrs old out that I indeed am adopted I become a angry young lady with trust issues I still have today. My grew more so that nobody came looking for met the kid. As I get older my anger has turned into interest like aunts? Uncles? Cousins? And as a only child the possibly of siblings maybe even nieces or nephews. I’m excited. It may be sweet but It ain’t candy so my guard is up.